1. First of all, you will need to be clear on your intentions. Do you really want to play the violin? or was this wish merely conceived when your best friend showed you his instrument. 首先,你需要确定自己的意向。你是真的想拉小提琴吗?还是因为你最好的朋友向你炫耀了他的琴? 2. Once you are absolutely certain you want to follow through with this, here is what you do. First write down your intentions. It is important you use positive affirmations to write these goals. 3. It helps if you can identify your why. Why do you want to play the violin, lose weight, run a marathon, etc. The bigger your conviction, the easier it will be for you to make the transition. 4. Celebrate each step, regardless how tiny it is. You need all the help you can get to keep motivated. It also helps to enlist the support of friends or family members. 5. Stay clear of negativity. There will be those who try to sabotage you. This doesn’t even have to be intentional. It could evolve from a negative statement aimed at you, or even a deep rooted belief you had since you can remember. Any trigger that could bring this out should be avoided. |
【易说堂】养成好习惯的5个步骤